Because older men get jealous of younger men

This one bot sexes are guilty of, but what interests me particularly is the way envy of those younger manifests itself. With women it manifests as insecurity.

Wirth men, envy of the young manifests itself as denial.

Older Men will compete with the younger man in ruthless blood-letting ways, even when the younger man is his own son, and even when the son is under six.

There is almost nothing men fear as much as the faster, younger man.

But as I have said above, this fear extends even to their own child. I have seen this time and time again. Once a boy hits ten, his father will start to turn. It will be slight things initially, a faint rebuttal when the boy wants comfort, slightly rougher than usual rough-housing, and the teasing might go in a little too long if the boy catches fewer baskets than his dad. 

Men have tried to justify this behaviour with the “old bull / young bull” theory. You know the one. That the old bull has his herd of cows, and the younger bull wants in, so the too have to fight it out to see who is going to get the herd. This is an interesting theory except for two glaring problems. The young boy never wants to be a rival to his dad and is attacked into it by his mid teens when he has been so harassed he is simply lashing out. And no man, (and statistically extremely few in history) have ever owned a “herd” of women.

Of course men have never let facts get in the way of a good “scientific” theory, so why start now. Older men will continue to find justification for attacking younger men, because they are not at all ready to give the pleasure up.

In romance novels the men are NICE! they are good to their wives and better to their children. That is the ultimate fantasy man, and one of the main messages of this blog is, it is not that difficult to give a woman what she’;d like. You just have to open your eyes.

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2 Responses to “Because older men get jealous of younger men”


  1. 1 david March 2, 2016 at 11:17 am

    This is true, my dad always and still does this. Not all men are like this but a lot them are and not just towards their sons eg a 40 something yo would be like this towards a 20 something yo, justifying their nastyness for what they perceive the younger guy has in his youth by rubbing in what they perceive they have that the younger guy doesn’t even if the younger guy hasn’t actully done anything! eg if they dont have as much money as the older guy etc the older guy would rub it in.

    People say 30s are supposed to be best for guys? as they have more money and are still young.

  2. 2 ManOMan March 23, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    As an alternative perspective…Dad is displaying his love for his son by showing the competitive nature of men…starting with himself as an example 🙂 (the term “Tough Love” comes to mind) believing sincerely this is in the best interest of his son,especially adulthood.Father is not intentionally being malevolent (might seem so to you *~*) but in his mind believes he is actually being benevolent…he doesn’t a son vulnerable to hurt and pain.That is noble,that is love..and may increase the chance his son will be in good position in the world.John.D.Rockefeller’s father played tricks on him as a child,much to the young rockefellers annoyance but these tricks taught rockefeller not to be gullible/vulnerable to other men…certainly didn’t hinder rockefellers ambition.


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