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Because women set up fake profile personas to stalk ex’s on Facebook

Ok.. now this is another one of those posts where the men do it to. However, men have such short attention spans that they’ll give up fairly quick. They may come back and haunt you some time in the future, but stalk you for months – they just don’t have the committment to such petty projects.

However women will.

And oh, they will do it for months – even years. I have a friend (don’t we all???) who was on FB and of course some woman friended her and it turned out to be the mother of her husbands child about which she knew nothing. I think just about everyone has a story like this, or they know someone who knows someone who does.

if the woman can’t set up her fake profile to stalk the guy, she will get a friend to do it for her.

So here is the bazillion dollar question. Why? Why do this? Why subject yourself to this sort of humiliation. No matter who you are or what you look like or where you are at in life, you deserve to be with someone who likes you. Why do women get SO hung up on the guy who doesn’t want you?

And not just him, but the one who humiliated you and probably made fun of you in public (see previous post).

Women will underpay their hand when it comes to relationship. I mean think about it. How often do you see an attractive woman with a not so attractive man, then how often do you see the reverse? Women will sell out when it comes to relationships and go for the guy who is horrible to them or generally just beneath them. However, what is unthinkable is that she will pursue him relentlessly if he dump her.

Generally stalking is not just an ugly pastime, it’s also illegal in most countries. It is unhealthy and damaging to all concerned. And yet, women do it. And far more often than we like to think.

In romance novels the women are adored by men who are always deserving and often just a little obsessive, without being ugly or possessive. When men are ike this, women finally feel secure and able to get on with their day. And that is another reason women like romance novels so much.



Because women think their problems are unique

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The most wonderful thing about all the new electronic modes of communication is that women have found new and wonderful ways to tell everyone about the difficulties they are having emotionally.

It may be a quirky irritation with the guy who sells cupcakes at the shop down the road, it may be the latest analysis of the ex boyfriend, currently boyfriend, soon to be boyfriend or husband. No matter what it is that women are going through emotionally two things are certain:

1)      She thinks it’s never happened quite this way to anyone else

2)      It’s a cliché

Women constantly have ‘breakthroughs’ in this own self discovery. If men avoid honest self analysis by working hard and playing hard, women avoid honest self analysis by a faux self analysis that is really an opportunity to create excuses for all the things she won’t or can’t do.

A woman will have one of these breakthroughs in the shower, car, lying in bed, cooking dinner or especially at work, when she is supposed to be working. Breakthroughs are especially common when a woman is at work. This is when face book or msn come in so handy. Twitter is not quite as handy as there is not enough room to provide a detailed analysis of the breakthrough she’s had that day about herself and her own behaviours.

IN romance novels women don’t tend to be complainers or into overanalysing their situation. Usually if they have a problem that needs solving, they solve it. Men help, or they don’t. Intelligent women read romance novels because the women in them are the women we all wish we were.


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